Wednesday, December 23, 2009

ROAD TRIP!!!


11th of November, 2009

The residents of Cheryl's and the children in the foster program that attend high school all go to boarding schools in various parts of the country. When it is time for the holidays, most of them put themselves on a Matatu heading back to Nairobi leaving most of their belongings in a trunk at the school to wait for their return after the break. Those few who are leaving high school forever (YAY!!) must bring those trunks and all their belongings home with them. Since that would be incredibly difficult on a 3 hour bus ride, Someone needs to go and get them when they are finished with their exams, this time I was able to tag along!
The ride is long, but its amazing to drive through Kenya and see more of the country and the difference in landscape once you leave the city. On this gorgeous Tuesday morning we headed down a road that was familiar to me, as it is the same one taken to the Mara and the IDP camps. Its familiarity did not lessen its beauty. We drove past the great Rift Valley look out points, fields, forests, slums, farms and in the distance, Mburuku IDP camp with its new chickens and precious dust babies to to farthest from Nairobi I had ever been. We reached the small city of Nakuru and did a little shopping for Mary (our social worker) and her family as well as purchasing treats for the kids who were unfortunate enough to not be graduating and so had another few weeks of school left. As we left Nakuru, it felt like we were leaving Kenya, it was so different from Nairobi. Everything was green, and quiet in a calm, comforting sort of way. There were trees and shambas (farms) and children running around and waving at us as we drove past. It was so beautiful and peaceful, and here, tucked behind some trees and a few bushes was the house where Mary grew up and where her children still live with their grandmother. It was a small place, but comfortable and peaceful. A lovely place to spend the morning, retirement, your life....
After visiting with Mary's family for a bit we headed off to pick up James and Maria, who had been waiting for us all day. It was great to see some of the kids whom I had not seen since I first arrived in Kenya right before they started their term. The girls were happy to see us and thankful for the treats we had brought. They laughed and chatted with us as their school mates looked on and wondered what the Mazungus were doing there. One girl, Rhoda, I had never met before but she walked right up to me and hugged me and hung on me the whole time we were at the school. The boys, when we went to their school, were much more reserved but equally happy to see us. I realized how much I missed having them around and my excitement for the end of the term and their return home grew as we hung out with them for a bit before we left.
The drive home was fun, not lacking in laughter and chatter and singing. We arrived back at the home late, but happy. Two more members of our family were home and more would be following shortly.
Coming home is always a good day.

SOCIAL WORK

9 of November, 2009

**Disclaimer**The following will most likely be difficult to read, but it is life for many here in Kenya, and, I would venture to say, in much of Africa.

I have such a new respect for social workers after today. Especially ours. Her name is Mary and she has two kids that live about three hours away with her mother while she gives so much to provide for her family with her time and effort and heart to the motherless children here at Cheryl's.
The files of the children are a disaster. Many of them don't have one and the ones that do are out dated and disorganized. So, I decided to lend my magnificent organizational skills to make them a little easier to deal with. The task is a big one that begins with me familiarizing myself with the back stories of some of the children. I spent most of my day in a chair in the office reading these files on the verge of tears/in tears. Let me tell you about how the children at Cheryl's were:
Some have been abandoned. One was left on a bus at approx 4 years old. We have no idea what the name his mother gave him is.... many are not sure when their birthdays are or how old they are.
They have been tortured, beaten, burned, hit repeatedly in the head with blunt objects and pimped out by their own fathers.
They have gone days without food, slept in the streets, under lorries, in gutters.
There are those who witnessed the murder of their mothers at the hands of their fathers.
Many were unable to go to school, forced to stay at home, beg in the streets to provide and care for younger siblings.
They have watched their parents die of AIDS and other diseases, some do not know how their parents were killed.
They were displaced, cast out, unloved and unwanted....

Now, let me tell you how the children at Cheryl's are:
They are healing. They are loved. Accepted. Wanted. They are being educated. Encouraged to follow their dreams. They have food, shelter, clothing. They are well behaved, well liked and well adjusted children. They are a part of a family that looks out and cares for one another.

Seeing where they are now, you would never know where they used to be.

They are living proof of the power, grace and goodness of God.

Friday, December 18, 2009

THE K.A.S.


A Haiku

yellow, black, hairy
killer African spider
fear, screaming follows

WHO DOESNT LOVE A DAY FULL OF BRUCE??

18 of November, 2009

Today we brought some of the older kids to Kieren's house because school was not yet out for the younger ones and the big kids had not had much to do or anyone to do it with.
So 10 of us piled into the 7 seater and we made our way across town to the house with the big T.V. The night before Kieren and I had visited the grocery store and purchased sodas, chips and cookies for the kids as well as food for me to make lunch (which, by the way was so good).
When we got to the house it began to rain making it a perfect day for a movie day. The first movie- "Die Hard." It had been years since I'd seen it and the kids love the explosions etc in any movie so I knew it would be a good time.
After the movie was over the rain had stopped so I suggested that we go outside and sit on the veranda, or listen to music, or that they peruse the library. All of my suggestions were promptly, and politely shot down. They wanted to watch another movie. The second movie? "Die Hard 2". They loved it even more than the first one.
Kieren got home just after five and we were just finishing, you guessed it, "Die Hard 3." There was of course, no way that we were going to watch the first three and not the last one so we made dinner and settled into what is in my opinion, the best of the Die Hard movies--"Die Hard 4.0"
There was waaaaay to much violent T.V. being watched but at the end of the day, it was a good one and the kids enjoyed themselves which is what really matters.
And besides, how can a day FULL of Bruce Willis not be good?

SINGING AND SPARKLING- A (VERY) SHORT STORY




6th of November, 2009

Once upon a time, in a land over the ocean; a land teaming with wild life and rich in culture and beauty, there lived a group of children. These were no ordinary children. Although their short lives had been characterized by difficulty and grief they were children who had been marked by the hand of God. For although they had faced the harshness of life on earth, their hearts were pure and their gifts many. They had been given the gift of a life started over, the gift of a safe place to sleep and a full stomach, the gift of a new day and most importantly, the gift of Joy. Joy found in each other, in this new life they had bee given, and in music.
You see, they loved music. They loved to sing and to dance and because they had been given these incredible gifts, and because their lives were harder than most, they enjoyed this past time and found more pleasure in it than most. Like those who have been given incredible gifts, they delighted in sharing theirs with others.
They had heard of a home of retired x-pats who needed some music in their lives so they put on their good clothes, piled into the van and drove to the other side of the town to share their gift.

The children's performance sparkled. Their voices pure, their faces, smiling. The joy of the "oldies" was evident in their laughter, and smiles and clapping hands. When the music part of the performance was over the children mingled with the residents of the retirement home impressing the old folks, and bringing more laughter with them. Their job was done, their gifts shared. They drank sodas and played with sparklers and laughed and talked and reminded us all again how good life is.

Saturday, November 21, 2009

WOULD YOU LIKE CHIPS WITH THAT? -Overcoming the Language Barrier in Kenya

Because Kenya was once inhabited by lots of British people (still is) it has adopted many of its ways of speaking and spelling words such as colour and aeroplane. It is a great source of amusement and confusion to me as well as an annoyance when I fail to use the 'correct' word for an item because its so long since I've heard it spoken. Occasionally, I use the words that I'm used to for the sheer joy of seeing the looks of confusion on the faces around me and the thrill that comes with feeling as though I've exacted some sort of revenge on people for making perfectly normal words and phrases no longer normal.
Here are some of my faves:
chips= french fries
crisps= chips -these two kill me. Chips are chips and fries are fries and crisps
aren't anything. Unless you are talking about chicken and then the
word you are looking for is 'crispy'
biscuits= cookies
boot= trunk (of car)-dont get me started on this one.
jumper= sweater
DJ=tuxedo
poppin/nippin=going out/coming in ie: “I'm going to nip to the store for some milk”
seriously?
posh= fancy/rich- this is just a silly word that really shouldn't be used unless
you're talking about spice,as in one of the spice girls.
Half ten= ten thirty.- no. just. no. It can be half past the hour, thirty minutes
until the hour, but half 'whatever number' just isnt
acceptable... I totally use this one all the time btw.
Maths=math- this one I just cant get behind. Why are we adding letters to words
that have no need for them?

So there it is, almost three months in Kenya and I'm still having difficulty communicating with the locals. Maybe next month I'll finally get it.....

Sunday, November 15, 2009

IDP PART II




As our van raced along the road at breakneck speeds through sheets of rain and walls of fog I breathed a quick prayer for safety and repositioned myself in my seat behind our more than capable driver and tried to get some sleep. I saw no point in worrying and freaking out. If I die, I die. At the moment there was nothing I could do about it. And besides, I was tired.
The day had started early. I had awoken before the sun, or maybe the sun was up but was covered by the thick dark clouds that were dumping water all over Nairobi. Either way, it was dark. And rainy. And my freshly laundered (but somehow still not totally clean) clothes were out on the line. Dang. I ran outside to grab them but it was too late. They were soaked through. Oh well.
I went back inside and made myself a cup of tea as I began to get ready for my second day at the small Internationally Displaced Persons Camp called Mburuku. I was excited to go back. In the very short amount of time that I had spent there before I had come to love the children that live in the camp, dubbed “dust babies” for the simple fact that they were constantly covered in dust. Head to toe COVERED in dust. They were sweet and tragically innocent as their parents struggled to carve out a life for them in their tents in the desert. Having been displaced two years ago after the post election violence many of them are too young to remember what their lives were like before the IDP camp and so they spend their days happily running around barefoot and playing with dirt and rocks and sticks. They are precious, and I was looking forward to spending the day with them.
The drive there was an adventure in itself. We hadn't reached the end of my block before we were hit by a matatu that was driving on the wrong side of the road. James, our driver, rolled down his window and began yelling at the matatu driver and conductor while Irene (who is the director of VICDA) sat in the back laughing hysterically. I could tell it was going to be an interesting day. It was only a tap and so we continued on our way down the muddy, rocky, bumpy street in the rain dodging pedestrians (or were they dodging us?) and cars who paid no attention to the center divider line. Before long we cleared the city and began the 2 hour drive to Nakuru where the IDP camp is located. During the drive I spent my time alternately trying to sleep and laughing quietly while Irene and James yelled at each other in Swahili. At one point, Irene asked me how things were at Cheryl's and began to recount a story of how she had taken a young boy to Cheryl's after finding him thrown out of the home he was staying in and ended up on the street, alone. His name is Ruben, he is 16 and in form 2 in high school. I have been able to spend some time with Ruben, he is a sweet, shy, bright boy. An IDP, he was orphaned during the post election violence. Irene was called because the people who were sponsoring him decided that they no longer wanted him so they threw him out with nothing. No place to go and no money to get there even if he had a place. Irene was furious, and after telling those people exactly what she thought of them she took him to Cheryl's where he is thriving. Half way through the story Irene had to stop as she was overcome with emotion (her story is incredible and I will share it one day soon). It is amazing how much this woman gives. How passionate she is about what she does and the children that she helps. She is definitely someone that I would want fighting on my side. And I consistently find myself awed and humbled in her presence.
By the time we arrived at Mburuku the rain had stopped and the children ran to gather around our van. I noticed that they were a little less dusty. This, I found out, was because some volunteers from VICDA had provided some underground tanks and was paying to have them filled so now the people had water!! This is a big deal and a huge step in making their makeshift town home. As several of the people that we came with got in the van to go into town to buy the supplies for the day the rest of us began playing with children. In a matter of moments I was completely covered by them. They hung on me and tackled me and reached to be held. We chased each other and played soccer (with a bunch of bags bundled into a ball shape and held together by string) and just had fun being together. It was a good way to spend time as we waited for the others to get back with the medical supplies and the doctors that would be using them.
Not surprisingly, they were late. By about four hours. It was a fun, but long and tiring four hours and once the doctors got there they quickly set to work transforming the small school house (room) into a doctors office complete with “examining rooms” and tables for all the medicines and stations where they would measure and weigh the children and administer vaccines. Shortly after they arrived it began to rain and the room became very crowded and very loud very quickly. While we were waiting for the doctors to finish setting up one of the children came and stood in front of me, his small hands in mine. It wasn't long before his head was drooping and he was falling asleep while standing there so I scooped him up and he promptly nestled himself into my arms and fell fast asleep. He slept there in my arms for a good hour while the noise in the room grew louder and people packed in. He barely stirred. It was sad when his mother finally came to fetch him. Her arms is where he belonged, but I couldn't help feeling like mine were a little too empty after she took him away. As the afternoon wore on it began to rain harder and the room became hot and stuffy. There was nothing for us to do so we just stood there, doing our best to stay out of the way in the small cramped room. Because I had nothing else to do, and because it was driving me crazy I began to arrange all the boxes of medications, arranging them in neat rows and making sure that they all faced in the same direction. This, of course, made the pharmacists laugh at me so I stopped. Shortly after it was time for us to eat as we had not eaten anything all day. This was, like the rest of the day, another adventure. James had gone into town and picked up dinner for us-Nyoma Choma. A favorite dish of Kenyans, it is goat meat on bone. Now, I pride myself in the fact that I will eat anything at least once. This time, however, it was not going to happen. I contended myself with a couple of apples and the three peanut m&ms I had left from a bag I had purchased earlier at a rest stop and which had cost me a fortune by the way but were totally worth it. After our dinner the rain subsided a bit so we went back outside to play with the children. We spent some time singing songs and chatting with them as it began to get dark and the children began to disperse. At one point, I decided to walk over to the movie set that was being built in the middle of the camp and ask some questions. The film being shot at Mburuku is a Danish film about a doctor in Darfur. The cast and crew were incredibly rude and I was shocked at the way they treated the people in the camp. Not a movie that I will go to see....
It was dark by the time everyone was done being treated and the rain was coming down harder than it had all day. The doctors needed a ride back to their homes so we waited in the dark cold school room as James dropped them off and returned for us (an hour and a half later) As we sat huddled in the school room with a few candles for light I realized that I had to pee. The bathrooms in the camp are horrible, dirty, smelly port-a-potties that you can smell all over the camp when the wind is blowing in the right direction. Since there was no way I was going into one of those I had not used the bathroom all day. It couldn't be helped though, there was no way I could wait any longer. One of the other girls had to go to so we decided to wait until it was clear and just go on the other side of the building. By this time, all the residents were in their tents, it was pitch black and pouring rain so the side of the school house seemed like as good a place as any. It was a bonding experience for Jenn and I and I may now add an IDP camp to the list of odd places I've peed. Who needs actual bathrooms?
By the time our ride finally came back for us it was after 9pm I was more than ready to go home. The day would not have been complete without that ride home being what it was. As we left the camp our van slid and fishtailed all over the muddy slippery road in the rain and during the two hour drive home I dozed in and out as we were met by more pouring rain and huge amounts of thick gray fog. I finally reached my apartment after 11, happy, but thoroughly exhausted, dirty and wet. I took a quick shower and fell into bed. I slept soundly that night content with the day and the things we had accomplished and once again amazed, humbled, and thankful to be here and taking part in the the things I have done, the people that I have met and the adventures that have met me.